Understanding Parental Alienation
Divorce Attorney in Las Vegas
Parental alienation is when one parent gets a child to turn against the
other parent, which in turn causes a broken relationship between the child
and the then estranged parent. This happens when couples are going through
divorce, legal separation, or are in a high conflict marriage.
This type of behavior can damage a child's mental and emotional wellbeing.
The child is essentially being mentally manipulated or bullied by one
parent into believing that the other parent is the enemy. The parent who
is alienating the other parent may demonstrate verbal or non-verbal behaviors
that coax the child into turning against the other parent. Many specialists
view it as a form of brainwashing, because the child's hatred towards
the other parent is unjustified and is instilled by the other parent.
The rejected parent may approach the situation with a lack of empathy,
which may then further the child's hatred towards them.
Who is more likely to suffer from parental alienation?
Fathers are most often the rejected parent. In general, men have the tendency
to lack emotional connections, engage in rigid parenting, and can also
be passive, depressed, and withdrawn after a divorce. This may encourage
the child to reject the father. The parent that the child sides with,
or the "aligned parent," may undermine the rejected parent.
As mentioned before, this can be a conscious or unconscious act. The aligned
parent may not be aware that their actions and feelings have such a major
impact on their child, or they could be saying negative things because
they are aware that the child will feel the need to side with the aligned
parent. The aligned parent may also fail to ensure that the child keeps
in touch with the other parent and may accept negative remarks by the
child towards the other parent without disagreeing with or discouraging
such comments. Making derogatory remarks or blaming the other parent for
the divorce is seen as direct alienating behavior.
Signs of Parental Alienation
A child may demonstrate a negative attitude towards a parent in the beginning
stages of parental alienation. The child may seem uneasy around a parent
and may only commit to single-word answers when asked questions. The aligned
parent may not follow court ordered visitation in an effort to minimize
or completely cut off the child's interaction with the other parent.
The aligning parent may also allow the child to choose whether or not
they want to visit the other parent and may give the impression that,
if the child wants to visit the other parent, it would hurt the aligned
Discussing details about the divorce and financial issues to the child
may also warrant hatred against the other parent. The aligned parent may
also refuse to give the other parent access to a child's medical records,
school records, and the child's extracurricular activities' schedule.
These are all signs of parental alienation.
How an Attorney Can Help
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family law field is imperative when dealing with child custody issues. The attorneys at the
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